You’re Going To Get It. Yes, You Are: a blog to help others see the positive side of getting hurt emotionally and support them through it. This blog is about you! It’s about your story and how you can turn your experiences into opportunities for growth if you stay positive during hard times or if life throws obstacles in your way unexpectedly.
You’re going to get it. Yes, you are. You’re going to be hurt. It’s inevitable, and it will hurt like hell. You’ll feel like shit when it happens, but that’s okay because everyone gets hurt at some point in their life—and the sooner you get used to this fact, the better off you’ll be! The trick is learning how to cope with getting hurt so that you can move on with your life without feeling like a victim or remaining stuck on what happened in the past. This isn’t a pity party; rather, it’s an opportunity for all people who have been hurt or feel like they’re going to get hurt at any moment whether that means losing a job or dealing with an illness diagnosis or even having trouble finding love because everyone thinks they’re too introverted/intelligent/unapproachable/whatever other labels society puts on people these days…
There’s A Difference Between Being Unhappy And Broken
Unhappy is a state of mind; it’s temporary. Broken is permanent unless you try to fix it. There’s a difference between being unhappy and being broken. You may be in a dark place right now, but know that there are people out there who will help light your way back up to happiness. Find those people! They’ll help you see positive things in life again. And trust me when I say they’re out there—you just have to look for them!
Everyone Gets Hurt, And Everyone Gets Over It
Everyone gets hurt and everyone is at risk of being hurt. This truth can be hard for some to accept, but it’s true. Everyone experiences pain in their lives, and everyone deals with it differently. Some people are more resilient than others when they are put through emotional turmoil; some people may not show signs of suffering until years later; some will bounce back quickly while others need help and support from their friends or family members in order to recover from the same situation.
You can never know exactly what someone else is going through because everyone has a different way of coping with pain—but this doesn’t mean that you shouldn’t lend a hand when someone is hurting emotionally or mentally!
No One Owes You Their Time
This is one of the first things I learned when I started working at a coffee shop. When someone comes in and orders a latte, they expect it to be made quickly and accurately—they know that time matters, especially when you’re paying for something. But what if someone wants to spend more time with me? What if they want to talk about their day or ask me about mine? Sometimes people just want someone who will listen without judgment or expectation; sometimes people just need space and time away from those around them. We all have different needs when it comes to relationships, so make sure that you respect others’ boundaries as well as your own. That being said…
Not Everything Is Meant To Be In Your Life Forever
It’s OK to feel the way you do. It’s not your fault, and there’s nothing wrong with you.
You’re going to get through this. You will be happy again one day, and no matter what happens, I’ll always have your back. I know how it feels to be told that “this too shall pass” all the time when something bad is happening in your life or someone close to you passes away, but what if it doesn’t? What if this pain will never go away? Well…it might not. But guess what? It doesn’t matter! All that matters is being happy in the moment and liking yourself when you wake up tomorrow morning—and those two things don’t require validation from other people or things like having a certain relationship status or job title in order for them to happen!
Love is never a waste of time because it always leaves us changed for better or worse depending on how we approach it (or how we let others treat us during/after). So please remember: If there’s something good out there waiting for you somewhere else on this planet earth—you’ll find it eventually 🙂
Sometimes Things Have To End So Other Things Can Begin
Sometimes letting go of the past is the only way to move forward in your life. Even if you’re content where you are or in a certain relationship, you can’t stay if it doesn’t work any more. Sometimes you have to let go of things that were previously important in order to make place for new things.
Sometimes letting go of something makes room for something more fulfilling and meaningful. Sometimes people were meant only as stepping stones on our journey through life—and sometimes they are meant as permanent fixtures in our lives. The key is knowing when it’s time for each thing: whether we’re talking about relationships, friendships or even jobs…even cities!
Happiness Does Not Require Validation From Others
You want to be validated, but happiness is not a state of being. It’s a state of mind. You can be happy with or without validation from others. Maybe you don’t need to be validated by others to be happy? Maybe you can be happy even if you’re alone with your thoughts?
You see what I’m getting at here: I don’t think happiness requires validation from others. It can certainly help, but it’s not necessary for your own enjoyment and satisfaction in life.
“The people who does not require validation from anyone is the most feared individuals on the planet.”― Mohadesa Najumi
Love Is Never A Waste Of Time
I know it’s hard to believe, but love is never a waste of time. It may have been a waste of time when you didn’t have it, but now that you do? That’s something special. Love is the gift that keeps on giving, and gives back what it takes in.
Love is a gift from yourself to yourself, from others to themselves and each other—and it always comes full circle! The universe will give back what you give out as long as there’s one person willing to accept whatever form or shape your love comes in!
The Only Thing That Matters Is Liking Yourself When You Wake Up In The Morning
There will always be people who are not interested in you, and that’s okay. They don’t have to like you, and it doesn’t mean anything about you.
It’s important to remember that your self-worth is not determined by other people. It’s not based on what they think of you or whether they approve of your choices. You can love yourself even if others don’t see it or acknowledge it. Self-esteem isn’t a reflection of how much other people value us; it’s all about how we feel about ourselves, regardless of what anyone else thinks or says about us (or our life).
Someone needs to truly understand us and, more importantly, accept us for who we are as individuals with our own distinctive experiences and interests outside of the confines of their judgments and opinions on what we should do with our lives based solely on their standards. Only then can they make us feel good about ourselves.
This Too Shall Pass
The step towards healing from emotional pain is to realize that this too shall pass. The idea of acceptance and letting go of the reins has been talked about in many different ways, but it boils down to being able to count on one hand the things we truly have control over while realizing that many things are out of our hands.
When something bad happens, the only thing we can control is whether or not we allow it to define who we are or affect our future, both personally and professionally. Everyone struggles with acceptance at some point in their lives, particularly when dealing with trauma or loss, but as they say, “The only way out is through.”
I know it can be hard to cope with getting hurt. The thing is, we’re all in this together. Everyone has experienced heartbreak or some other kind of pain at one point or another. So remember that if you’re feeling like you’re alone with your feelings, trust me when I say that there are millions of people just like you out there who have been through exactly what you’re going through right now and feel just as lost as ever!
RUCHI RATHOR Founder & CEO
Payomatix Technologies Pvt. Ltd.
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